A Bride will always choose someone she adores and trusts infinitely, to be her bridesmaid. This is a position of honour and responsibilities. It’s not just about being colour-coordinated and looking drop-dead gorgeous on the wedding but about things you do through the course of the affair. Here’s the full list.
Get together with all the other bridesmaids and plan an unforgettable bachelorette for your friend. From what to do, where to go, making reservations, deciding the menu and sharing responsibilities, there is much to be done. But the hard work always pays off when you see how thrilled your best friend is, as she takes in all your efforts to make her bachelorette special.
An extremely important part of being a bridesmaid is to make sure the bride’s fashion needs are sorted. So from helping her select her wedding outfit to which shoes and jewellery would match the look, to her trousseau, it’s all part of your to do list.
Indian weddings are loaded with several functions such as the haldi, mehendi, sangeet, reception, vidai. You should do your absolute best to be a part of all these events as a bridesmaid. Not only will this make the bride happy, but it’ll also act as a stress buster for her, thus cementing your bond as best friends.
As a bridesmaid, you should be available to the bride as advice giver and audience. Whether it is nerves before the wedding, problems with the wedding dress, or conflicts with the family members, make sure you are always there to help her out in stressful times.
Making sure that all guests are well seated, the food and cake come in at the right time, or that the couple is comfortable are things to look into. But despite being the organizer don’t forget to have fun because your friend wants to see you have a good time too! Making sure the dance floor is never vacant is your biggest responsibility!
This one is optional, but it’ll definitely make the bride’s day. Get in touch with the groom and coordinate a personalized surprise from the two of you. Whether it is a video or a skit or a song and dance performance anything put up by her two best people, she will love.